Emotion, Encouragement, Inspirational

Rejection Issues Revised — Part VII Healing Attention v. Invisibility

If a person with rejection issues wants to be invisible—that’s when they need love and gentle attention. Love is really the key to healing rejection. God’s love and the love of people. #rejectionissues #rejectionsymptoms #rejectionhope TWEETABLE

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Emotion, Encouragement, Inspirational, Rejection Issues, Spiritual Growth

Rejection Issues Revised — Part VI Attention v. Invisibility

Another symptom of rejection I had: the longing for attention vs. the desire to be invisible. That’s a dichotomy to be sure. It has to do with who you’re with. Are you with people you know who will love and accept you unconditionally—or with those you don’t know? #rejectionissues #rejectionsymptoms #rejectionhope TWEETABLE

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Emotion, Encouragement, Inspirational, Spiritual Growth

Healing from Jealousy & Envy — Rejection Issues REVISED Part V

Rejected people are selfish by nature. Because we need to have acceptance. When we get something we want, we feel that’s when people accept us. When we’re denied, we’ve been rejected.  #rejectionissues #rejectionsymptoms #rejectionhope TWEETABLE

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Emotion, Encouragement, Inspirational, Spiritual Growth

Jealousy & Envy — Rejection Issues REVISED Part IV

Are you jealous of what others have? Do you long to have more than you do? Have you ever acted on those feelings of envy? Can you be happy for someone else who got what you wanted? #rejectionissues #rejectionsymptoms #rejectionhope TWEETABLE

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Encouragement, Inspirational, Rejection Issues

Apology Demand? — Rejection Issues Revisited Part IV

I found this post from 2015. It published a week or so after my “Please Get Your Facts Straight” post — the highest viewed post in one day I’d ever had. What was the right thing to do? You tell me. Do you demand an apology for those who have hurt you? @donnalhsmith #rejectionissues #rejectionsymptoms #rejectionhope TWEETABLE

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Emotion, Encouragement, Inspirational

Rejection Issues Revised — Part II

Last week I talked about anger, and how an emotional wound of rejection feels—paper cut vs. knife to the heart. How do we get past this? That’s what this series is all about. We need to release anger in a “healthy” non-destructive way. In order to do that we cannot carry the anger around with us like a ball and chain—because that’s exactly the picture of unforgiveness and carrying grudges.  #rejectionissues #rejectionsymptoms #rejectionhope TWEETABLE

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Emotion, Inspirational

Rejection Issues Revised — Part I

Instead of re-blogging a short series from four years ago, I’m revising it—because this issue is too important to me, and others. I also have more healing and understanding than I did four years ago.

How do you take criticism? Does it feel like a stab wound or a cut? @donnalhsmith @a3writers #amwriting #rejectionissues #rejectionsymptoms #rejectionhope TWEETABLE

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